Emotional Quotient in Thailand continues to plummet – not only among Thai youth
A recent report into Thai social issues by the NESDB shows another alarming drop in Emotional Quotient (EQ) scores among Thai youth from what was an already low base.
This comes at a time when further low grades in almost every aspect of Thai education – covering ‘IQ’ – makes human development as a whole a national failure in Thailand. But is there anything that can be done to promote higher Emotional Quotient / EQ scores in Thailand?
What is Emotional Intelligence (EI)?
Emotional Intelligence can be divided into four factors according to Daniel Goleman’s model:
· Self awareness
· Self management
· Social awareness
· Social skills
Self awareness is the first factor of EI – being aware of the compulsions, the pushes and pulls that act on us every day. Between stimulus and action, there lies self-awareness. A lion, for example, may feel the stimulus of ‘hunger’ which then quickly turns into the actions of ‘stalk’, ‘chase’, ‘kill’. As humans, however, we have a choice, and the more self-aware we are, the greater space we can create to clarify the choices we may have.
Self management is the second factor. This is when these compulsions and emotions stop controlling us and when we then begin controlling them. This is the stage where we can direct our energies toward a greater good. This skill includes self motivation.
The third factor is Social Awareness, or empathy. Here we are able to tune in to signals from other people, including voice, body language and facial expressions, and environmental cues to be able better to understand how they feel and the moods and impulses working on them.
The last factor is Social Management. This is where the previous skills come together and with language skills combine to equip a person with the ability to manage conflict, be assertive, work as part of a team and influence others.
Where Thais (as a whole) struggle
We’re going to hold up our hands here and say we have done only a very little research (n=<200) into EQ among Thai adults.
However so far a clear pattern has emerged.
While on multi-rater scales Social Awareness ranks higher among Thais than the other three factors, Self Awareness is very low, Self Management is held back by poor self-motivation, and Social Skills are also not very highly regarded with – not surprisingly perhaps – Face being cited as the culprit.
Thailand’s EQ Challenge is not only on a youth level but importantly on an adult level.
Parenting was identified by the NESDB report as a key factor in arrested Emotional Development among Thai youth, and on an adult level we find:
- the 2nd highest infidelity rates in the world (link here), which places a strain on family life
- mothers who have a tendency to spoil their children, and fathers who have a tendency to neglect them
- very little mentoring or ‘quality time’ with children. Too much TV, games and not enough reading and activities where parents can discover their children’s habits
- tacit acceptance of cheating by their children in homework assignments
Face even gets in the way of this article…
Now I know that some of these findings may come as a surprise to Westerners who may have developed an image of Thais being family-oriented, socially pleasant, non-violent and adaptable individuals.
This may explain what’s really going on with the EI scores above.
Are Thais (as a whole) adept at Social Awareness because they are weak in the other three EI skills?
It’s interesting, when a person’s face (small f) is not to be seen, then the behaviours seem to match the image above less and less, for example:
– When driving
– When working in a group where it’s possible to ‘socialise’ negative behaviours (just look at how governments run in Thailand for a start!)
– When using public space (litter habits for one thing).
Could it be that that higher Social Awareness skills are a consequence of ‘Face’ and that Thais are using the skills in this Factor to overcome / hide the serious deficits in the other EI skills that are tearing apart the fabric of Thai society?
Is this the root cause of all the other ills?
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